Dear Pink Panel,
I have a terrible habit of rushing to judgments. I know judging people and situations too quickly can cost friendships and block interacting with new people. What are some thoughts and tips for avoiding making snap judgements? What are your suggestions to slow myself down and let things ride a little?
Signed,
Theresa

Q:  In certain of your books, you have written that children as young as 3 years old should be doing daily chores around the home. Exactly what chores are reasonable for that age child?

A: First, a personal anecdote: My mother kept a scrapbook of my early years that contained photos, notes, and other such memorabilia. Browsing through it one day, I found a photograph she had taken with her Brownie camera of me washing the kitchen floor in our tiny apartment on Church Street in Charleston, South Carolina. On the reverse side of the photo, Mom had written a date indicating that I was 3 years and 6 months old at the time.

Fungal infections are more common than many realize—and often more stubborn. While they may not always pose a serious threat to overall health, conditions like toenail fungus, ringworm, jock itch, and athlete’s foot can cause persistent discomfort, embarrassment, and frustration.

That’s why we asked members of our local medical community to explain the key differences and similarities between these fungal culprits, what causes them, why they spread so easily, and why they’re so predominant in the Lowcountry. Don’t let these common infections take control—knowledge is the first step toward clear skin and nails.

Over the past 20 years, The Reel Corner has focused on films, both on the big screen and streaming platforms, highlighting actors, directors, major productions, and independent films. While we have covered film festivals and film events, we have not delved into the development of Hollywood as we know it today.

I recently watched a Netflix docudrama, Titans: The Rise of Hollywood, about the history and power of Hollywood and wanted to share some key insights: The story of Hollywood’s evolution into the world’s premier film industry is one shaped by innovation, migration, and transformation. In the early 1900s, the film industry was primarily controlled on the East Coast, notably in New York and New Jersey. 

Dear Pink Panel,
My husband recently retired, and he has been in front of the TV ever since.
PINK ladies, I need some help with how to approach “household job sharing” without seeming to be a nag! Based on your experiences, any ideas?
Signed,
Pamela G.

Q: My 3-year-old son tends to react physically when he's mad at a preschool classmate instead of talking it out and letting the teachers intervene. We have encouraged him to use words when he’s angry, but he doesn’t seem to get it. Today he bit a classmate (the second time in a year this has happened), and got sent home. I fed him lunch and then confined him for the rest of the day to his bedroom. From now on, I plan on sending him to school every day with a “behavior report card.” He’ll get a mark for hitting, not obeying, and snatching toys from other kids. If he gets three marks in a day (morning, actually), I’ll confine him to his room at home. Your thoughts?

Quite simply, just the term autoimmune can be confusing, but we hear it used all the time in vitamin and prescription medication commercials—You have to build up your immune system. Your autoimmune system must be weak.

In actuality, very few of us probably know if our immune system is strong or weak mainly because it’s complicated and affected by many varying factors. With all the talk about vaccines, children going back to school and being exposed to viruses and bacteria, and also what seems like a rise in cancer cases, Pink had to know more about the human immune system. So, we went to our experts and here’s what we learned.

After viewing F1: The Movie, The Reel Corner tried to analyze what it is about Americans’ love for speed. This enchantment and thrill of going fast seems to be a multifaceted phenomenon that has deep roots in our nation’s culture, history, and entertainment.

This fascination can be traced back to the early days of the automobile, when the invention of the car transformed transportation and symbolized freedom and progress. The open road became a canvas for adventure, and speed was not just a means of getting from point A to point B; it became an exhilarating experience that encapsulated the spirit of exploration and individualism.



Dear Pink Panel,
My husband recently retired, and he has been in front of the TV ever since.
PINK ladies, I need some help with how to approach “household job sharing” without seeming to be a nag! Based on your experiences, any ideas?
Signed,
Pamela G.

Living with an emotionally dramatic child is no fun. They throw wet blankets over nearly every family gathering or outing. Little is right in their lives and attempts to cheer them up generally fail and often result in things getting worse for all concerned. The parents of mini-malcontents don’t really want them around but feel guilty at not wanting them around. They can’t win for losing.

Mental health professionals are wont to explain misanthropic kids as suffering biochemical imbalances; or, they describe them as “manipulative.” No one has verified the existence of the former, thus leaving the latter.

We’re taking a “bite” out of those scary, sneaky crawlers
with fangs, teeth, tentacles, and stingers to learn all
about staying safe this season!

It’s summertime, and as we walk through tall grasses,
swim in the ocean, and sit on picnic blankets, our not-so-friendly biting insects and other crawling atrocities are ready to claim their territories on us—literally! Following, not only will you read a real-life story about being bitten by a copperhead snake—everyone’s nightmare, you will also read what our experts best advice to avoid summer sabotage when it comes to snakes, insects, jellyfish, spiders and poison ivy and oak.

If you ever feel too old to continue your passions
think of June Squibb, who, at age 95,
just debuted her latest leading role film
at the Cannes Film Festival

June Squibb is indeed an inspiring figure in the entertainment industry, showcasing that passion and talent can thrive at any age. Born on November 6, 1929, in Vandalia, Illinois, she has had a remarkable career which spans several decades and various mediums, including theater, television, and film.



Dear Pink Panel,
I work for a non-profit, and most of the people I work with are volunteers. It is so important to keep volunteers engaged and happy. Panel, what kind of ways or things can I use for rewards or motivation without seeming to play favorites or make others jealous?
Signed,
Amy R.

Living with an emotionally dramatic child is no fun. They throw wet blankets over nearly every family gathering or outing. Little is right in their lives and attempts to cheer them up generally fail and often result in things getting worse for all concerned. The parents of mini-malcontents don’t really want them around but feel guilty at not wanting them around. They can’t win for losing.

Mental health professionals are wont to explain misanthropic kids as suffering biochemical imbalances; or, they describe them as “manipulative.” No one has verified the existence of the former, thus leaving the latter.

“I have a headache” is not just an excuse to skip the romance and is really no laughing matter, especially when headaches cause debilitating pain. Headaches come in many forms and intensities, so those who may only get a headache now and then, may not understand the terrible pain associated with chronic and consistent ones—not to mention migraines. Nearly 96-percent of adults will have at least one headache this year, and not just on New Year’s Day. Unfortunately, women are more likely to experience both migraines and tension headaches nearly twice as often as men. In other words, headaches are a real pain in the…head. And such, with this condition affecting so many, we wanted to know all about the common—and not so common—headache. We went to the professionals to learn more.

Four Seasons (1981) (2025)
Love and Friendship over the years.


In 1981, Alan Alda and Carol Burnett brought to life a poignant exploration of love and friendship in Four Seasons, a film that resonated deeply with audiences through its character-driven tale about three couples navigating the complexities of their relationships over the course of a year. Fast forward to 2025, when Tina Fey takes the helm as producer of a modern remake, also titled Four Seasons, now available on Netflix. With a fresh cast, including Tina Fey, Will Forte and Steve Carell, this updated version retains the essence of the original, while introducing contemporary themes relevant to today’s audience.

Dear Pink Panel,
My husband has a large extended family, and they have been so wonderful
to me as a “marry-in.” I would really like to do something to say thank you to them.
It is about 24 people total. Does the panel have any ideas? 
Signed, Patty R.

A 4-year-old—I’ll call him Popeye—had a habit of hitting other children in his preschool program. His teachers tried various approaches, including rewarding him with a treat on days when he didn’t hit. That backfired, as such silly approaches to discipline nearly always do.

At wit’s end, Popeye’s mom asked my advice, which I gave as follows: When Popeye hits, his teacher is to immediately remove him from class, take him to a neutral “holding zone,” and call Mom. As soon as she is able, Mom is to retrieve Popeye from school, take him home, confine him to his room for the remainder of the day, and put him to bed immediately after supper. During Popeye’s “rehab,” his parents should cleanse his room of all entertainment.

Many days it seems as if we are all living under pressure and undue stress, which can take a toll on our bodies. High blood pressure can be one result of life in the fast lane, whether it be working in a high stress job, being in a bad relationship, or consuming an unhealthy amount of alcohol (not to mention drug intake). However, high blood pressure can also be one of those genetic perils, making it a condition you have to deal with regardless of your lifestyle.

Mike White’s The White Lotus has evolved into a compelling anthology series that intertwines themes of privilege, morality, and the human condition. After the success of the first two seasons—one set against the lush backdrop of Maui and the other amidst the historical beauty of Sicily—Season 3 transports us to Thailand, offering a fresh, yet familiar, exploration of the dark undercurrents that flow beneath the surface of luxury.

Dear Pink Panel,
Help! I’ve been dumped three times in the last three weeks.
First, my long-time boyfriend said we need to see other people because we have grown apart. We all know what that means, right? Next a co-worker stopped speaking to me.
And my former mother-in-law, who used to be semi-friendly, started gaslighting me.
I am at a loss. Can the panel give me a hint as to a good course of action?
Signed, Alice A.

No small number of today’s parents view their children through psychological lenses, especially when it comes to misbehavior. Instead of regarding a given misbehavior as simply an error that needs to be corrected through the application of proper discipline, the parents in question interpret it.

“What does it mean?” they ask and proceed to ascribe some psychological significance to it. In so doing, they transform verifiable concrete events into unverifiable abstract “issues”.

It’s hard to think of anything more important than our eyesight. It affords us the luxury to see the world in our own unique way, watch our children grow up, and take in the beauty all around us, especially seeing beauty the of our Lowcountry. If you stop and think about it, eyesight is truly a miracle. However, two out of every three people living with blindness or vision problems are women, according to the National Eye Institute, so we have to ask, “Are you seeing your eye doctor every year?” If not, you need to because keeping your eyes healthy can be as simple as catching things early. April is Women’s Eye Health and Safety Month—designed to remind us to care for our eyes and vision. Don’t let this year go by without having your eyes checked. Clearly, your eyes will thank you.

For all the readers of The Reel Corner who may have been feeling the pinch of rising egg prices and the weight of everyday stress, a good dose of comic relief could be just what the doctor ordered. Comedy, much like music or cologne, is a deeply personal choice, but during this season of renewal, as we bid farewell to winter, welcome the beauty of spring, and draw closer to wedding season, it is the perfect time to indulge in some light-hearted entertainment that to do your heart good. Out of the many comedy genres, The Reel Corner’s choice are romantic comedies. Here are a few I recommend: